I wanted a new shower curtain but I knew black would make the light too low to enjoy the daily washing experience so I got some lights and a great little speaker on sale. I replaced all my old kitchen towels and cloths and removed another three bags of things we no longer need to…

If I’m not careful and deliberate about my thinking it gets away from me. This morning I was out on the road and without any awareness I began to run the old software. I started running through the ways I fall short and why I am never enough for anyone. I relive the life i…

I’ve written before about being asked what I do for work. I’ve written about how it didn’t necessarily feel accurate to say I don’t work when it’s actually more like I never stop working. It’s been a long time since I held employment in a traditional sense of the word. I had plans and aspirations…

I’m confused. I can never really tell where the end of grace and the beginning of doormat exist. See, people are often heard saying the phrase, “when they show you who they are, believe them”, right? Or, “if they wanted to, they would.” Okay, but at the same time no one is perfect, as we…

The timing isn’t lost on me. “so, this thing happened and it’s completely changed your life. what’s your dream?” I’m a little bit taken aback and I scramble to answer. “well I don’t plan things very well, you know? I’m lost most of the time and I’m not sure how to get where I want…

Somewhere along the road I transitioned from relating to Bart and Lisa to relating to Marge and Homer. These days I’m barreling towards becoming Abe. It is the natural progression for those privileged enough to get this much time. It is far from a negative aspect of living, it is the best case scenario. I…